What the FAQ

Below we have answered the most frequently asked questions you may have. If you have another question that isn’t answered, you can contact our customer care team who are available 24 hours, and are here for you should you ever need us. Helping to take the guesswork out of our site, leaving you saying FAQ YEAH!

1. Is it really free to join?

Yes! It’s totally free to join, use the site, and browse and match with members. You can upgrade to a paid VIP membership for unrestricted access to all premium site features including private messaging, the raunchiest photos and videos, insights on who likes you, and more. Manage your membership easily online at any time.

2. What is a ‘VIP’ member?

VIPs get access to all the premium features designed to boost your swinging success - unlimited messaging, all the sexiest photos and videos, insights on exactly which members view/like their profile and posts, swipe ‘rewinds’, advanced search filters, priority placement, and more!

3. Is it discreet and secure?

Absolutely. As a private member site, we’re committed to protecting your security, privacy, and discretion. We never display personal contact details, and you control what’s visible on your profile. With any paid membership, your bank statement will only show a discreet, nondescript transaction rather than the site name. We don’t share any of your information with 3rd parties.

4. Will you spam my inbox?

No, we won’t! Our email systems are SenderScore certified. As a member, you’ll choose what you’d like us to notify you about (new private messages, new matches and likes, etc). You can change your preferences whenever you like.

5. What can I expect on the site?

Once you join for free, you’ll be part of a welcoming community of poly couples and singles looking to connect with each other. Meet, chat, have fun and share steamy stories and experiences. Our dedicated live 24/7 support team ensures that your membership stays easy, fun, and safe!